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Here, we tackle the hard stuff—abuse, trauma, betrayal, and deep heartache—with grace and biblical wisdom. You won’t find platitudes or quick fixes here, but rather honest conversation, space to heal, and Christ-centered guidance rooted in truth.

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Is Being Nice Killing You? 

Does it feel like you’re always giving, but never the one receiving? Do you dread the thought of disappointing others, so you go above and beyond to make sure everyone in your life is happy—all the time? Or cringe when asked to do one more project, because you know you’ll say yes, even though secretly you want to say no? Are you eager to please and wear a constant smile, even when your world is falling in around you? If this is you, read on—because being “nice” and trying to please everyone—all the time, exacts a high toll.

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